NCJ Number
192120
Editor(s)
Joan Tabachnick
Date Published
1999
Length
9 pages
Annotation
After presenting data to show the prevalence of the sexual abuse of children by other children, this booklet provides information on such abuse and how parents can interact with their children to prevent it.
Abstract
Data show that 30-50 percent of sexual abusers are under the age of 18. After defining healthy sexuality, this booklet briefly describes age-appropriate sexual behavior for the following age groups: preschool (0-5 years); school age (6-12 years); and adolescence (13-16 years). The booklet then lists acts that constitute sexual abuse, classified as "touching" offenses and "nontouching" offenses. Some behavioral and physical signs that a child has been sexually abused are outlined. Instructions to parents regarding what they should do if a child discloses sexual abuse include getting the child to a safe place and seeking specialized treatment. Information that parents should give their children to help them avoid sexual abuse include the nature of appropriate touch, the confidence that children control their bodies, the proper names for all body parts, not to keep "touching" secrets, their right to physical privacy, and how to say "No" to inappropriate touching. Suggestions are also offered for the best settings and methods for imparting information on sexual abuse to a child. The four steps outlined for responding to a child who has been sexually abused are to stay calm and ask gentle questions, listen to the child, reassure the child, and seek help.